As you rebuild, consider the clear, repeated warnings of Scripture against pursuing this work without the influence and guidance of the wisdom of women. There are Abigails and Esthers, Deborahs and Jaels, Proverbs 8 women all throughout your organization. They haven’t deserted you, even though they’ve been sorely tempted.
Ask them for the help they’ve been gifted to give you.
Ask them to be your allies in this battle, the allies they were created to be.
And when you’ve commissioned them, listen to them when they speak.